I have been ambushed this week. There was no time to circle the wagons. Here is the background of the ambush.
Months ago I scheduled to take off work on Friday in order to go camping. I chose to camp on this week and on this Friday because my calendar was pretty clean. I still have my regular work. So, I have regular work plus taking Friday off. “I can work some on Saturday to finish up the week and everything will be fine,” was my reasoning. Sounds like a plan. Now here is the ambush.
I had a huge amount of work to do on some home projects that I did not see coming. I had a once a month meeting fall on this week and I had not anticipated that. I had an eight hour meeting come up that I did not see coming. I had a one hour dentist appointment turn into a two and three quarter hour appointment. I had several logistical details for my sabbatical that needed to be finalized this week.
By Wednesday at noon I was struggling. I owed this article and my sermon outline and Walking Papers and Companionship Papers to my assistant. I need to review my lesson for small group tonight. My sermon is not in good shape. I must do some prep for my long meeting tomorrow. I owe an email response to a person that is getting urgent.
I was going about my merry way and not harming anyone and: “Bang, ambushed!”
As the ambush happened and intensified the emotions inside me “happened and intensified.” (Don’t get me wrong these emotions are my personal choice. I was ambushed by the circumstances but I chose the emotions.) I was angry, frustrated, and annoyed. At times I neared panic and then drifted into self pity and then veered back to anger.
So, here are some lessons from the ambush. I am writing these for my own benefit and I am happy if you want to read them and hopefully benefit as well.
Ambush lesson number one: I do not choose to be ambushed but I do choose how to respond.
Ambush lesson number two: From eternity past God knew this was coming and allowed it to come.
Ambush lesson number three: The more negative emotions I choose the more I exacerbate the consequences of the ambush.
Ambush lesson number four: Take a deep breath and calm down.
Ambush lesson number five: Do the next thing. Prioritize and do the next thing. (The universe goes on even when I am too sick to get out of bed—it is doubtful that it will fall apart today.)
Ambush lesson number six : On the weeks when you get ambushed one of the things you can do is make your article for the e-link shorter.
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